L.C. Bird High

Talaya Oxendine

CIS Site Coordinator

(804) 768-6110, ext. 3051

Go-to-school snack: grapes with lime and when I’m stressed out, a Coca Cola

My favorite part of the day: The moment that I enjoy the most is when a student comes in and I’m able to give them hope for whatever they are going through

A student moment that always makes me smile: I have a student who I have worked with since his sophomore year and he is now a senior. He makes me smile because he was getting into trouble last year and now he has completely turned things around. He has matured greatly since last year and he has enlisted in the military and is scheduled to leave shortly after graduation.

What “showing up” means to me: Being present for my students means that I don’t always have to have an answer or fix a problem. Sometimes, I must sit and listen to what the student is saying. They are not always looking for a solution but they want to know that they are being heard and that their feelings matter.

One thing I hope every student knows: I hope that every student knows how much I love them and care about them. I want them to know that the same expectations I have for my own children, I have for them and I want to see them all succeed. I also want them to know that my office is a safe space for them to share their feelings without being
judged.

Stephanie Mardigan

CIS Site Coordinator

(804) 768-6110, ext. 3044

Go-to school snack: bbq chips

My favorite part of the school day: I really enjoy the time of day when small groups
meet, whether it’s Grief Group, Sources of Strength, Embrace, or the Kindness Club.
These groups provide an opportunity to connect with students on a deeper level, rather
than just checking in about their attendance or grades. They also create a space where
students can open up, share their experiences, and express themselves in a supportive
environment.

A student moment that always makes me smile: Normally, I’m the one checking in on
students to see how they’re doing. So it really means a lot when a student goes out of their way to stop by my office just to ask how I’m doing or to check in on me. Their kindness and thoughtfulness make those moments especially meaningful.

What “showing up” means to me: Showing up means being a safe, consistent presence for students and creating a space where they feel comfortable being authentic—whether they are having a great day or carrying something heavy. It also means supporting them in whatever way they need in the moment—listening, guiding, celebrating their successes, offering tough love when needed, and taking the time to truly see them as individuals beyond the classroom.

One thing I hope every student knows: I want every student to know they are seen and valued, and that their current circumstances do not define them. With hard work and determination, they have the power to shape their own future and change the narrative
of their life.

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